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Case Title:
girlfriends like to talk!
Plaintiff Side:
My friend Josh gets angry with me when I talk with my girlfriends about things he tells me. He never says this stuff is a secret when he's telling me this-so i don't know what his problem with this is. He's always getting mad at me for this. Josh has even gone back to my girlfriends and taken an attitude with them. All this came to a head when I told them about something Josh had told me. He told me that he was mentally abused by his step father when he was growing up and that it really had an effect on him, etc. We'll, he was crying when telling me this stuff. He didn't get mad that I told my girlfriends about the abuse- just the fact that I told them he was crying in front of me.
Defendant Side:
Normally, Angela is a great great friend. I feel like I can tell her anything...because...I have. I've told her things no one else knows about me-including the fact that i was abused as a child. My problem was NOT with her telling her friends about this but the fact she told them I cried in her presence. I didn't like that – Angela should know better than to tell her girlfriends this. Now, sometimes when Angela is not around and some of her girlfriends are they fake cry and then laugh. I KNOW why this is and it's because of Angela telling them that I cried. Again, she should have know better in the first place. She knows a friends are extremely immature and that they might do something like this. I've told both of them off multiple times and since then no one seems to be talking. This is becoming a major problem since these 2 girls are good friends of hers.
Who's right?